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It is friction among them that is working itself out. The sangoma or the patient throws the bones but the ancestors control how they lie. Archived from on 4 March 2016.


It is believed that the spirits have the power to intervene in people's lives who work to connect the sangoma to the spirits that are acting in a manner to cause affliction. They are AMAZING people, and I have the utmost respect for them. Now we try to talk things through calmly. One also finds a variety of strange names that are related to an event close to the birth of the child - Lightning or Unfortunate are some names that may be used.


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Five sangomas in Traditional healers of South Africa are practitioners of in. They fulfill different social and political roles in the community, including , physical, emotional and , directing birth or death , finding lost cattle, protecting warriors, counteracting , and narrating the history, cosmology, and myths of their tradition. There are two main types of traditional healers within the , , and societies of Southern Africa: the sangoma , and the inyanga. These healers are effectively who are highly revered and respected in a society where illness is thought to be caused by , pollution contact with impure objects or occurrences or through neglect of the ancestors. It is estimated that there are as many as 200,000 indigenous traditional healers in South Africa compared to 25,000 Western-trained doctors. Traditional healers are consulted by approximately 60% of the South African population, usually in conjunction with modern biomedical services. For harmony between the living and the dead, vital for a trouble-free life, traditional healers believe that the ancestors must be shown respect through ritual and animal sacrifice. They perform summoning rituals by burning plants like imphepho , dancing, chanting, channelling or playing. Traditional healers will often give their patients —medications made from plant, animal and minerals—imbued with spiritual significance. These muti often have powerful symbolism; for example, fat might be prepared for children to promote courage. There are medicines for everything from physical and mental illness, social disharmony and spiritual difficulties to potions for protection, love and luck. Although sangoma is a term that is colloquially used to commonly describe all types of Southern African traditional healers, there are differences between practices: an inyanga is concerned mainly with medicines made from plants and animals, while a sangoma relies primarily on divination for healing purposes and might also be considered a type of. In modern times, , , and have blurred the distinction between the two and traditional healers tend to practice both arts. Traditional healers can alternate between these roles by diagnosing common illnesses, selling and dispensing remedies for medical complaints, and divining cause and providing solutions to spiritually or socially centred complaints. Each culture has their own terminology for their traditional healers. Ngaka and selaoli are the terms in and respectively, while among the they are called mungome. The Tsonga refer to their healers as or mungoma. Sangomas greeting each other A sangoma is a practitioner of ngoma, a philosophy based on a belief in : amadlozi; : badimu; : izinyanya and the practice of , which is often a mix of medicinal plants and various animal body fats or skin. Sangomas perform a holistic and symbolic form of healing by drawing on the embedded beliefs of the , who believe that ancestors in the afterlife guide and protect the living. Sangomas are called to heal, and through them it is believed that ancestors from the spirit world can give instruction and advice to heal illness, social disharmony and spiritual difficulties. Traditional healers work in a sacred healing hut or indumba, where they believe their ancestors reside. Where no physical 'indumba' is available, a makeshift miniature sacred place called imsamo can be used. Sangomas believe they are able to access advice and guidance from the ancestors for their patients through by an ancestor, or , throwing bones, or by. In possession states, the sangoma works themself into a trance through drumming, dancing and chanting, and allows their ego to step aside for an ancestor to take possession of his or her body and communicate directly with the patient, or dancing fervently beyond their stated ability. The sangoma will provide specific information about the problems of the patient. Some sangomas speak to their patients through normal conversation, whilst others speak in tongues, or languages foreign to their patients, but all languages used by sangomas are indigenous Southern African languages depending on the specific ancestors being called upon. Not all sangomas follow the same rituals or beliefs. Ancestral spirits can be the personal ancestors of the sangoma or the patient or they might be general ancestors associated with the geographic area or the community. It is believed that the spirits have the power to intervene in people's lives who work to connect the sangoma to the spirits that are acting in a manner to cause affliction. For example, a crab could be invoked as a mediator between the human world and the world of spirits because of its ability to move between the world of the land and the sea. Helping and harming spirits are believed to use the human body as a battleground for their own conflicts. By using ngoma, the sangoma believes they can create harmony between the spirits which is thought to bring an alleviation of the patient's suffering. The sangoma may burn incense like imphepho or sacrifice animals to please the ancestral spirits. A sangoma's goal in healing is to establish a balanced and harmless relationship between the afflicted patient and the spirits that are causing their illness or problem. The healer intercedes between the patient and the world of the dead in order to make restitution. This is generally performed through divination throwing the bones or ancestral channeling , purification rituals, or animal sacrifice to appease the spirits through atonement. Sangoma performing a divination by reading the bones after being thrown Throwing the bones to access the advice of ancestors is an alternative practice to the exhausting ritual of possession by the ancestor. In a typical session, a patient will visit the sangoma and the sangoma must determine what the affliction is or the reason the patient has come to them for help. The patient or diviner throws bones on the floor, which may include animal vertebrae, dominoes, dice, coins, shells and stones, each with a specific significance to human life. For example, a bone signifies a thief and will provide information about stolen objects. The sangoma or the patient throws the bones but the ancestors control how they lie. The sangoma then interprets this metaphor in relation to the patient's afflictions, what the ancestors of the patient require, and how to resolve the disharmony. In the same way, sangomas will interpret metaphors present in dreams, either their own or their patients. When the diviner comes to an acceptable understanding of the problem and the patient agrees, she will instruct the patient on a course of medicine which may include the use of ngoma, referral to a herbalist, inyanga if the sangoma does not have the knowledge themselves , or recommend a Western medicine regimen. Preparing and drying out freshly picked mutis The prescribed by a traditional healer are called muti. They may be employed in healing as warranted in the opinion of the herbal specialist or inyanga. Muti is a term derived from a word for tree. African makes extensive use of botanical products but the medicine prescribed by an inyanga may also include other formulations which are zoological or mineral in composition. Traditional medicine uses approximately 3,000 out of 30,000 species of higher plants of Southern Africa. In and , the word muti is sometimes used as a for medicine in general. Mutis are prepared, and depending on the affliction, a number of purification practices can be administered. A blanket is used to cover the patient and container. Hot rocks or a portable stove may be included to keep the bucket boiling. The patient sits under the blanket, breathes in the herbal steam and sweats. Some are taken to induce sneezing which may traditionally be believed to aid the expulsion of disease. Others are taken for the common conditions such as headaches. The enema is a preferred route of administration of certain plant extracts, as it is believed they are more effective when administered this way. An experienced inyanga will generally seek the guidance of an ancestral spirit before embarking to find and collect muti. The healer, through dreams or during prayers, believes they are advised of auspicious times for collecting the plants. In some cases, symbols and dreams are also interpreted to determine which particular plants to collect for a specific patient and where these plants are located. The healer supplements the perceived advice from an ancestral spirit with their own knowledge, training and experience. An initiate ithwasa being led towards the goat that will be sacrificed at her initiation into becoming a sangoma. Both men and women can become traditional healers. These problems together must be seen by a sangoma as twasa or the calling of the ancestors. Sangomas believe that failure to respond to the calling will result in further illness until the person concedes and goes to be trained. The word twasa is derived from thwasa which means 'the light of the new moon' or from ku mu thwasisa meaning 'to led to the light'. A trainee sangoma or ithwasa trains formally under another sangoma for a period of anywhere between a number of months and many years. The training involves learning humility to the ancestors, purification through steaming, washing in the blood of sacrificed animals, and the use of , medicines with spiritual significance. The ithwasa may not see their families during training and must abstain from sexual contact and often live under harsh and strict conditions. This is part of the cleansing process to prepare the healer for a life's work of dedication to healing and the intense experiences of training tend to earn a deeply entrenched place in the sangoma's memory. During the training period the ithwasa will share their ailments in the form of song and dance, a process that is nurtured by the analysis of dreams, anxieties, and with prayer. The story develops into a song which becomes a large part of the graduation-type ceremony that marks the end of the ithwasa's training. At times in the training, and for the graduation, a ritual is performed usually chickens and a goat or a cow. At the end of thwasa and during initiation, a goat is sacrificed to call to the ancestors and appease them. The local community, friends and family are all invited to the initiation to witness and celebrate the completion of training. The ithwasa is also tested by the local elder sangomas to determine whether they have the skills and insight necessary to heal. Sangoma in traditional attire dancing in celebration of his ancestors Sangoma can also literally mean 'person of the drum' or 'the drumming one' and drumming is an important part of summoning the ancestors. During times of celebration e. The sangoma will fall into trance where the ancestors will be channeled which is signified in Zulu traditions by episodes of convulsive fits followed by the singing of ancestral songs. These songs are echoed back to the ancestor via the audience in a process of. The possessed sangoma will then change into their traditional ancestral clothing and dance vigorously while others and sing in celebration. Forms of the ngoma ritual are practiced throughout southern and south-eastern Africa in countries such as , , , , , , and. In more northern areas the practices are generally more diverse and less organized than the southern practices. Among the , the practice is called loka or more negatively doga, a term meaning witchcraft. Ngoma is believed to have come to southern Africa during the that began around 2000 BCE and was further influenced by the that occurred until 500 CE. The practice has evolved along with the social problems of its users. In pre-colonial form ngoma songs dealt mainly with issues of hunting. Over time the system adapted to include the introduction of guns, and later the racial and class struggles of practitioners under colonial rule. In Zimbabwe, the civil war experience lead to a revival of ngoma practice with a new emphasis on the spirits of the victims of war. The service allowed the sangoma to help people cope with their own violent acts as well as those they had fallen victim to. An example of this is the who believe that one of the main alien spirits that can bestow powers of clairvoyance and the ability to detect is the Ndau Spirit. The Ndau spirit possesses the descendants of the who had slain the and taken their wives. Once the Ndau spirit has been converted from hostile to benevolent forces, the spirits bestow the powers of divination and healing on the n'angna. In addition, ngoma has been adapted by many to include both Christian and Muslim beliefs. The act calls for the establishment of a national council of traditional health practitioners to regulate and register a. However, it was only in December 2011 that the took action and opened nominations for seats on an interim council. In October 2012, Health Department spokesperson Joe Maila advised that the Department aimed to have the council up and running by the end of 2012. The Interim Traditional Health Practitioners Council was eventually inaugurated on 12 February 2013. Several sections of the act, dealing with the establishment and governance of the national council and the registration of practitioners, came into effect on 1 May 2014. Previously, the had passed the Traditional Health Practitioners Act of 2004 Act. However, the act was ruled after Doctors for Life International challenged it at the , citing the insufficient public participation at provincial level in the drafting of the act. The received a submission from the Traditional Healers Organisation requesting the investigation of the constitutionality of the and the , the drafting of which was suspended in 2008. On 23 March 2010 the Minister of Justice and Constitutional Development approved a South African Law Reform Commission project to review witchcraft legislation. In March 2012 the South African Law Reform Commission advised that Ms Jennifer Joni has been designated as researcher and Judge Dennis Davis has been designated as project leader for Project 135: Review of witchcraft legislation. Dr Theodore Petrus, who completed a doctoral thesis on witchcraft-related crime in 2009, was invited to become part of an advisory committee to assist in the review. The question of authenticity is still an ongoing discussion. Philip Kubekeli, director of the Traditional Medical Practitioners, Herbalist and Spiritual Healers Association, and Phephsile Maseko, spokesperson of the Traditional Healers Organisation, see nothing wrong with white sangomas. Kubekeli and Maseko maintain the position that traditional healing knows no colour. Several white sangomas, interviewed by in 2010, claimed that they have been welcomed by the black community in South Africa, aside from isolated experiences of hostility. On the other hand, there have also been reports that white sangomas have been less readily accepted by black sangomas. A number of the South African traditions e. Dr Nhlavana Maseko, founder of the Traditional Healers Organisation, explains: Foreign spirits are not of your family. That is all it means. Foreign spirits are not your ancestors. My forefathers, for instance, were warriors and they killed some people. When these people were killed, they become my family's foreign spirits. There must be a working relationship with your foreign spirit and your ancestors. They have something, an injustice, a murder that must be worked out, must be healed. During training, as the ancestors come out, you have to finish up with your own ancestors first. That relationship sorts itself out, then you are ready to work with the foreign spirits. It happens in a natural way. The ancestors do the work through you. Maybe the foreign spirit want to be the important or senior ancestor; when the ancestor of your clan comes, well, they may have to fight it out. You might feel some aches during this time. It is friction among them that is working itself out. Inyanga in her ndumba, a sacred hut used for healing. Behind her are her , medicine stored in containers. The formal health sector has shown continued interest in the role of sangomas and the efficacy of their herbal remedies. Well known contributions to world medicine from South African herbal remedies include , and. In the past decade, the role of traditional healers has become important in fighting the impact of HIV and treating people infected with the virus before they advance to a point where they require or can obtain anti-retroviral drugs. Estimates of the number of indigenous traditional healers in South Africa ranged up to 200,000 in 1999, compared to 25,000 Western-trained doctors. Traditional healers are consulted first or exclusively by approximately 60% of the African population. While for many they provide the healing needed, there are some causes for concern. Some sangomas have been known to abuse the charismatic power they have over their patients by sexually assaulting them, sometimes dressed up as ritual. Repeated use of the same to make incisions for carries transmission risks in regions where the disease is rife. Typical flyer advertising found around the major cities of South Africa Due to the heavy influx of and migrants, a large number of mainly unemployed or unskilled foreign nationals have taken advantage of the local population's respect and trust of sangomas and have set up bogus healing practices, where they exploit clients for as much money as possible. These charlatans often call themselves doctors or professors and claim themselves as sangomas, faith healers, psychics or as traditional healers, but have no legitimate references and are not trained as such. In the , they often adopt in order to attract the local population, who are in part. They advertise through flyers, posters and adverts that are commonly plastered on the streets and lamposts of cities throughout South Africa, especially in densely populated urban areas. The adverts make outlandish promises and claims about spells that bring back lost lovers, potions to and spells that will make people rich or provide them with luck to win in gambling or the lottery, to name a few. The sophistication of their advertising also extends to advertising in local newspapers and internet websites. Many people have lost significant amounts of money from scams, tricks and false promises that these charlatans use in their cons. Many women have significantly damaged their reproductive organs and the ability to reproduce, due to back street abortions. Legitimate sangomas and South African traditional healing organisations are angered by these charlatans and are working to end the trade of bogus traditional healers and fake sangomas through regulation, legal action and awareness. They believe the charlatans harm the reputation of the legitimate traditional healers and also damage the lives of many innocent people. As a general rule, sangomas tend not to advertise through flyers or posters. They tend to rely more on their reputation, word of mouth and their trust in their ancestors to bring them the right clients. They only help to connect with the ancestors, who gives them directions on how to heal and assist people in need. The ancestors get angry when people play with their name and end up taking away the powers and calling given to a person. However, he also warns that people should not be gullible. Phephsile Maseko, national co-ordinator of the Traditional Healers Organisation THO says: A true healer is someone who has been through initiation, inducted by an expert in the field, who has undergone rigorous training and completed external healing courses. If a patient complains of headaches, they will be given plants with painkilling properties. But the healer will also try to establish the root cause of the headaches, and treat that too. 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